Childbirth and Orgasms

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Sex Time and PowerCan childbirth be orgasmic? That’s the topic of discussion I’ve had lately. It started when I learned about the movie Orgasmic Birth and shared it. Then a conversation on Twitter reminded me of a book I read a few years ago that I loved called Sex, Time, and Power: How Women’s Sexuality Shaped Human Evolution by Leonard Shlain. It was the first time I had heard of orgasms and childbirth being related.

According to Shlain a woman’s body is designed so that as the baby is born the right buttons get pushed. The endorphin rush provides a natural pain relief that helps women make it through and be willing to do it again.

Let us consider why it would have been very beneficial to the survival of the human species for a woman in the throes of childbirth to experience an orgasm. Or, in unable to attain this extreme height, she would have, at the minimum, neurotransmitters tickling her brain’s synapses, diverting her attention away from the painful crushing occurring between her legs. How convenient for Natural Selection to arrange to have an internal morphine pump alleviating the pain of childbirth. The switch for it, abutting the back side of the pubic bone, would be indented “on” only when heavy pressure was applied - the kind of pressure that could happen routinely during birth, or in odd positions during sex. In a few women, the pump releases other psychoactive substances that can stimulate a woman to orgasm. [pg. 81]

He goes on to liken the experience to breastfeeding which can be extremely painful in the first days/weeks and yet the brain releases oxytocin, the love hormone, to make a mother fall in love with her baby and be willing to continue feeding the child. In a time when she couldn’t whip up a bottle of formula it was extremely important that a mother want to feed her baby. The loving, relaxing, calming sensations that wash over a mother when she breastfeed encourage her to keep doing it. Shlain feels the same about childbirth.

I propose that the human female orgasm was an evolutionary prize awarded to women because Gyna sapians became the first females to learn of copulation’s onerous and even deadly prize. [pg.82]

orgasmic birthIf you visit the orgasmic childbirth section of the Born Free site you can read quotes from women who have experienced orgasm during the childbirth. Some the type of orgasm you would expect during birth and some a more “becoming one with the universe” type of orgasm. You can also read an interview with Debra Pascali-Bonaro, the creator the Orgasmic Birth film.

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  • Think this si great. This is what happend to me with my first birth. I simple felt good and no pain adn then there was may baby. It was very nice. My sister still doesn’t beleave me :)
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  • Lis Garrett says:

    LOL! Seriously? I had my third with no pain relief, and it was NOT an orgasmic experience. Well, maybe it’s because it happened so quickly . . .

    Lis Garrett’s last blog post..lump in my throat

  • Lisa says:

    With my first I did not have an orgasmic experience. However, with my 2nd I did and was shocked by it in a good way.

  • Jill says:

    Amazing stuff! I almost went to Limewire just now to see if I could download this…but I have a feeling that searching for “orgasmic birth” might not give me the results I was looking for. ;)

  • Sara says:

    *gooy sigh* Thats such a wonderful amazing ideal. It sounds wonderfully easy….but with so many people NOT experiencing it…makes me very hopeful for my own birth. Though…gotta get pregnant first…

  • [...] world premiere on May 12th.  My good friend and fellow blogger Summer talks about the film here and here.  You can view the trailer for the movie at the Orgasmic Birth [...]

  • Mommie#6 says:

    Yes it is true!!! It is possible to have an orgasm during child birth.. I am a mother of six.. And for the first five natural deliveries I did not experience one actually nothing but a lot of pain. But with the last one I did.. I remained in an upright position during the whole labor process which is the only difference from my others. Not only did this take the pressure off of my back during the labor.. I was pleasantly surprised during the pushing part.. As my baby was coming out I felt an intense orgasm during the birth, It felt great but I was embarrassed wondering if my doctor knew… So for all of the people who think it isn’t possible it is..

  • Thomas says:

    Sorry, but that’s the funniest thing I’ve ever heard when it comes to childbirth. But being open minded, I’ll accept the fact that it’s possible.

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