http://wiredfornoise.com/discipline-and-abuse This ain't a blog, it's a god damn arms race. Wed, 17 Mar 2010 20:14:32 -0700 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.3 hourly 1 http://wiredfornoise.com/discipline-and-abuse/comment-page-1#comment-5321 Kiera Wed, 06 May 2009 14:27:13 +0000 http://wiredfornoise.com/discipline-and-abuse#comment-5321 (to scarlett.. if your 18 and still get spanked, than thats wrong.. theres no way in hell id get spanked now, except maybe by my boyfriend haha, i do whatever i want pretty much. when your 18, your an adult legally. and you could totally say thats sexual abuse.) Spanking is defined as "the administration of one or two mild to moderate open hand ‘smacks’ with an open hand to the butt or extremities that does not cause physical harm”. I dont think that that is wrong in some cases, although it definitely should not be used always, only in a case where the child is over 2 and under 10 and has been pushin it and pushin it, and done something really bad. Always explain what they did wrong before the spanking and tell them you love them but they need to learn a lesson other than natural cause and effect, because in the real world if you do something really wrong thats illegal, you get alot worse than a spanking, you go to jail. I think its horrible that that woman used an extension cord, thats disgusting. But i disagree that spanking is always wrong, because in some cases it can be useful and not harmful if used properly. i got spanked as a child, but not all the time, and i turned out fine. (to scarlett.. if your 18 and still get spanked, than thats wrong.. theres no way in hell id get spanked now, except maybe by my boyfriend haha, i do whatever i want pretty much. when your 18, your an adult legally. and you could totally say thats sexual abuse.)
Spanking is defined as “the administration of one or two mild to moderate open hand ‘smacks’ with an open hand to the butt or extremities that does not cause physical harm”. I dont think that that is wrong in some cases, although it definitely should not be used always, only in a case where the child is over 2 and under 10 and has been pushin it and pushin it, and done something really bad. Always explain what they did wrong before the spanking and tell them you love them but they need to learn a lesson other than natural cause and effect, because in the real world if you do something really wrong thats illegal, you get alot worse than a spanking, you go to jail. I think its horrible that that woman used an extension cord, thats disgusting. But i disagree that spanking is always wrong, because in some cases it can be useful and not harmful if used properly. i got spanked as a child, but not all the time, and i turned out fine.

]]> http://wiredfornoise.com/discipline-and-abuse/comment-page-1#comment-5229 Scarlett Thu, 23 Apr 2009 23:48:20 +0000 http://wiredfornoise.com/discipline-and-abuse#comment-5229 im 18, and i still get spanked. im 18, and i still get spanked.

]]> http://wiredfornoise.com/discipline-and-abuse/comment-page-1#comment-2644 The Attached Mother » Blog Archive » Is Spanking A Reasonable Parental Punishment? Sat, 21 Jun 2008 16:16:56 +0000 http://wiredfornoise.com/discipline-and-abuse#comment-2644 [...] The problem is what exactly is reasonable force? Here ins the states a court ruled that it was reasonable parental disciple when a mother beat her son with an extension cord and left bruises. Clearly there is not one size fits all definition of what is reasonable and what is [...] [...] The problem is what exactly is reasonable force? Here ins the states a court ruled that it was reasonable parental disciple when a mother beat her son with an extension cord and left bruises. Clearly there is not one size fits all definition of what is reasonable and what is [...]

]]> http://wiredfornoise.com/discipline-and-abuse/comment-page-1#comment-2643 PlanningQueen Sat, 21 Jun 2008 12:39:49 +0000 http://wiredfornoise.com/discipline-and-abuse#comment-2643 Smacking children shows lack of discipline by the adult. You see it happen and it is that adult who cannot control their emotions and lash out at their children. It does not help children to develop their own core discipline. Smacking children shows lack of discipline by the adult. You see it happen and it is that adult who cannot control their emotions and lash out at their children. It does not help children to develop their own core discipline.

]]> http://wiredfornoise.com/discipline-and-abuse/comment-page-1#comment-2614 O’DonnellWeb - This is not a homeschooling blog » Blog Archive » links for 2008-06-13 Fri, 13 Jun 2008 23:30:32 +0000 http://wiredfornoise.com/discipline-and-abuse#comment-2614 [...] Wired For Noise » Blog Archive » Discipline and Abuse Indiana is still safe for child beaters. (tags: parenting) [...] [...] Wired For Noise » Blog Archive » Discipline and Abuse Indiana is still safe for child beaters. (tags: parenting) [...]

]]> http://wiredfornoise.com/discipline-and-abuse/comment-page-1#comment-2613 Trish Fri, 13 Jun 2008 18:52:29 +0000 http://wiredfornoise.com/discipline-and-abuse#comment-2613 Makes me sick to my stomach. Makes me sick to my stomach.

]]> http://wiredfornoise.com/discipline-and-abuse/comment-page-1#comment-2611 Rebecca Fri, 13 Jun 2008 17:57:14 +0000 http://wiredfornoise.com/discipline-and-abuse#comment-2611 My step children received "discipline" with a belt,wooden spoons,sticks....anything and everything their mother could beat them with. That indeed is not discipline...it's flat out abuse.Having them live with us, I see first hand the damage that style of "discipline" leaves on a person,even when they become young adults. When the goal of parenting is to raise children into well -adjusted ,kind and decent human beings who are responsible contributers to society, acting like the opposite of that doesn't get the desired results. My step children received “discipline” with a belt,wooden spoons,sticks….anything and everything their mother could beat them with. That indeed is not discipline…it’s flat out abuse.Having them live with us, I see first hand the damage that style of “discipline” leaves on a person,even when they become young adults. When the goal of parenting is to raise children into well -adjusted ,kind and decent human beings who are responsible contributers to society, acting like the opposite of that doesn’t get the desired results.

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